I hope nothing what I wrote will offend you. I mean no harm, and I respect you and your blog.
Hi. I came across your blog and let me tell you three things that all women should follow when it comes to sex:
1. Know what your body likes and what your body does not like. This is tres imporante! If you know what’s best for your body, you’ll make better choices for your body.
2.Learn how to communicate effectively. Learn how to say what you want, what you don’t want, learn how to explain explicitly and clearly as well.
3. “I scratch your back, you scratch my back” Girls usually feel like they’re gonna sound like a dick when they demand some back. Asking usually does not have to be demanding, it can be done politely.
4. If he doesn’t respond so effectively TURN HIM DOWN IMMEDIATELY.
5. Acknowledge the fact that you did have a part in every fuck sessions that turned out to be so miserable for you. Forgive yourself. AND think about what you did wrong and, now, think of positive and effective ways of how to deal with such circumstances if it happens again. Let’s be honest, it’s hard to turn away from bad habits/mannerisms.
6. Don’t beat yourself around the bush. Love yourself. No woman is a hoe, remember that. Your body is unique as well as each and every body. Forgive yourself, you did not know any better in the past, now you do. Commit yourself into learning, and accept that it will take trial and errors. Find people who will be patient enough to be beside you through your trial and errors. Believe me, they are alive. They are alive because there are millions of people in this world who would like the explore what they really want for themselves, and their bodies. And like just like you, they don’t want to be judged.
Oh one more thing: Not all pussies are identical. Every pussy is different from another pussy. We are built like that biologically. If one differs from another, then one has a different sexual response compared to the other -so there’s no such thing as the ‘righteous way’ of how to express one’s sexuality. And if there’s no right way on how to express one’s sexuality, then no woman is a hoe.
Of course, it is important to protect yourself against STDs and unwanted pregnancies…
I cannot stress any further how important that is to understand for every girl who hasn’t solved differences with their sexualities because it truly starts with loving oneself.
This takes practice, but trust me, you will get used to it. It took me about 3-4 guys to finally get the guts to turn down guys who wouldn’t do the ‘favor’ back. Whatever the hell that is… because it is important to take care of yourself.
The first time I have every had an orgasm with a guy was with the hmm probably the 5th guy I fuck. FIFTH.
And throughout my life, I’ve only had 2 relationships. The fifth one wasn’t my boyfriend either. He liked me though, I liked him too. We held hands at one time, but I know it’s not going to work because we have both busy livess
Set standards.
Don’t worry hun. You’re not alone. And you probably already know that because you’re familiar with women who fake orgasm.
I’m 19, turning 20 this year. I lost my virginity duirng sophomore year of my high school. And those 5 guys I was talking about -those were vaginal sex… I’ve hooked up with more than 5 guys… probably 8 or 10, I lost count. 2 guys I actually had fun with, meaning I was satisfied, the rest were lousy. The ratio of guys who I gave some, and got none back… I guess it was just 1 guy, but it doesn’t matter because there were only 2 out of 10 guys who actually satisfied me.
And it’s bad on their part too, mhm. They were REAL lousy fuckers, some even came less than 2 minutes. The real victim here is the future girlfriend.
And if you have any questions about orgasm and female anatomy. Feel free to ask me questions. I’m more willing to tell you. I like educating women on their sexuality and taking care of themselves -I’m a feminist and a liberal like that :)
